Monday, November 12, 2007

To All the Kids Who Survived the 1930's 40's, 50's, 60's & 70's!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant.

They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes.

Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-based paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets; and when we
rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention the risks we took hitchhiking.

As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, booster seats, seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the back of a pick-up on a warm day was always a special treat.


We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

We shared one soft drink with four friends from one bottle, and NO ONE actually died from this.
We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter, and drank Koolade made with sugar, but we weren't overweight because WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING !


We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day.
And we were O.K.


We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we'd forgotten the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, or X-boxes. We had no video games at all, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD's, no surround-sound or CD's, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or chat rooms.......
WE HAD FRIENDS, and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls, and, although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.


We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them!

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't just had

to learn to deal with disappointment.

Imagine that!!

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of.

They actually sided with the law!

These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!

The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned ..........

HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!

If YOU are one of them, CONGRATULATIONS!


You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our lives for our own good.

And while you are at it, forward it to your kids, so they will know how brave (and lucky) their parents were.

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?!

The quote of the month is by Jay Leno:

"With hurricanes, tornados, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance? "

For those who prefer to think that God is not watching over us.......go ahead and delete this.

For the rest of us.....please pass this on.


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My dear friend Colleen emailed the above post to me today. I'm not sure who wrote it originally but it struck a chord with me.



I remember playing outside as a child. Inside too at times, I road a small horse as a child and young person. Princess (a biting kicking, crowhoping, fence jumping, explosion-and my best friend), anyway Princess was dishfaced like an arabian, and a bit smaller than a morgan. black mane and tale, star on her forehead, deep bay color, fine legs, and ran like the wind.


One summer day I was riding princess, I was under 9 years old at the time. Can't quite remember just what age I was, somewhere between 4 and 9. Mom must have called me from the kitchen and I didn't want to get off my horse. I knew I had to come when she called me, so I came in with the horse under me.


Here is this little red headed girl, bareback on this spirited horse, coming up the front walk, up the step, I remember leaning forward and opening the screen door.... and into the kitchen we went.


I have no idea what my mom wanted, but I do remember her exact words. Get that horse out of this house! 40 years later the thought of it still makes me laugh.



What can I say, made perfect sense to me at the time. The horse was my friend, I didn't want to leave her behind so she came into the house with me...



Princess was my piggy bank horse. The day we went to pick out a horse for me to ride, we went to the horse dealer. There were so many beautiful horses in that corral. All different colors, there was this one paint that was so flashy and beautiful. Then I saw Princess. She was so skinny, and rough coated, her head hung down and her main and tail were all matted.



When it came to people I was a very shy little girl. But there was something about that horse. I remember talking to the horse man, saying I'll give you everything in my piggy bank for that horse. My mother was not thrilled. I wasn't in school yet so I must have been 4 years old. The horse man looked at me and said deal.



Princess was mine. My $10.00 piggy bank horse. We took her home, she was covered with lice. and so skinny it hurt to sit on her back. We, mostly mom I would imagine, cleaned her up, got ride of the mats in her main and tail and those nasty lice. She put on weight and instead of hanging her head and dragging her tail, her head came up with this wonderful arch in her neck, and her tail was up.



I grew up with Princess. She was absolutely beautiful, ran like the wind, and jumped over anything I asked her too. Sometimes when I didn't ask her. She loved to run, nose stretched forward, neck out, ears back, with her tail whipping out straight behind her....with this little red headed girl stuck to her back, no saddle just flying mane and a bridle ...



Life is a journey... enjoy the trip ... Mary E. Robbins & the Hairballs

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Email from a friend that brought a smile to my face

The other day a young person asked me how I felt about being old. I was taken aback, for I do not think of myself as old. Upon seeing my reaction, he was immediately embarrassed, but I explained that it was an interesting question, and I would ponder it, and let him know.

Old Age, I decided, is a gift.

I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have always wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometime despair over my body, the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt. And often I am taken aback by that old person that lives in my mirror, but I don't agonize over those things for long.

I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become more kind to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avante garde on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.
I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood t he great freedom that comes with aging.

Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon?

I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60&70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ... I will.

I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set.

They, too, will get old.

I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.

Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.&n bsp; So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.

As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.

So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every sin gle day. (If I feel like it)

MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S STRAIGHT FROM THE HEART!
MAY YOU ALWAYS HAVE A RAINBOW OF SMILES ON YOUR FACE AND IN YOUR HEART FOREVER AND EVER!

FRIENDS FOREVER!
Life is a journey... enjoy the trip...

Monday, October 08, 2007

Dog rescue ...Clean up project


Wow… what a month. You know I think it has been about a month since I’ve been posting regularly. Why did I disappear. Actually I didn’t really, I’ve been here all along. Just psycho busy.

I’ve been the primary in a dog rescue and clean-up project that still isn’t finished. Thankfully we did have a few volunteers helping out but the brunt of it fell into my lap. Simply because folks had no idea just how big of a job it was.

So far we’ve moved over 45 poms to our place. No I’m not increasing my breeding kennel. This is strictly a rescue and clean up project. After they have stabilized the plan is to start on the spay and neuter, and place part of them. The lady they are coming from has finally agreed to place part of them. It has been a major challenge to remove them from her property. She is unable to care for them. Or to the upkeep and maintenance to her property. She is a senior citizen and it has been extremely traumatic for her as well as for her dogs.

I know she has hired people to do the maintence and clean up on her property… when you have dogs it’s a continuous process. When I looked at her kennel runs I knew they just took her money and didn’t do the work. The runs were absolutely filthy and over run with fleas. The fleas were to the point that they were killing the dogs.

Yes I have been on a flea killing rampage. I refuse to have fleas on my property so I’ve been dipping her dogs and spraying the runs I’ve been putting them in. So far so good. The fleas are dying and no spread on my property.

I am not running a second breeding kennel on my ranch. But I will keep her dogs here for her and clean them up. Once they’ve stabilized I’ll start the spay and neuter process. This way she can come and see them and be involved in their care as much as possible.

It’s important that senior citizens… anyone really… feels they contribute.

Gotta run…
Life is a journey…enjoy the trip… Mary E. Robbins & the Happy Hairballs
307-788-0202

Monday, August 20, 2007

Beautiful Morning... feel like crud...


It's absolutely beautiful outside this morning, 71 degrees now. They are forcasting the upper 90's for here today. So it will more than likely be over 100 degrees once again. Beautiful now though.


It's been a rough couple of days for me. A gastric attack has hung on for 2 days now. I will not miss it when it's gone.

I wasn't very active yesterday. Didn't get to sleep the night before because of the gastric attack and waking up choking. Pretty freaky when you wake up and can't breathe. That experience I can do without ever having again.

Gotta get with it. The kennels need taken care of. Water is an absolute must in this heat. Well it is a must anyway, but they drink much more, and use it up sitting and playing in it in this heat.

Couldn't stand my coffee yesterday, as a result I woke up with a migraine this morning. That nasty thing is starting to ease off. I've actually been able to drink a cup of strong coffee.

So much of getting anything done is mindset. Today mine is pretty funky. Need to change my focus so I can function effectively. Put together my priority list and just start working through it. First thing on my list for today is to shift my state of mind, so I'm going to listen to a bit of the secret to get my day started.

Life is a journey... somtimes there are rocks on the road... you decide what to do with the rocks... Mary E. Robbins & the Hairballs
307.788.0202 USA Mountain Time

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